HeyJaredDecolonizing Love
We explore how colonialism shaped relationships, then practice new ways to love.
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The Left Has Extremists Too. And Denial is What is Destroying Our Movements. (opens the original)
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The left tends to deny the existence of its extremists.When people on the left engage in destructive, abusive, and deeply antisocial behaviour the left is often so quick to explain it away. They are really right-wing trolls. They are CIA psy-ops. They are Russian bots. They are liberals pretending to be leftists. They are not really part of our movement.Sometimes outside actors really do interfere in leftist movements. But that explanation has become a convenient way of avoiding a much harder re
The Vessel: Taking a Compassionate Pause in Polyamory (opens the original)
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Sometimes polyamorists take a break from dating new people to help support their existing relationships. It’s called a vessel. A term coined by Jessica Fern in Polysecure.A vessel is a temporary, intentional agreement to pause the pursuit of new romantic and sexual connections.It’s an act of relational triage. It may help people stabilize a new relationship, transition into non-monogamy, process trauma, rebuild trust, or develop the emotional and communication skills needed for a healthier open
The Neurodivergent’s Guide to Polyamory: Autism, ADHD, BPD, NPD & PTSD (opens the original)
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Walk into any polyamory meetup and you’ll notice a lot of us are neurodivergent. That isn’t a coincidence.Neurodivergence means navigating the world with a brain that thinks, processes, and perceives outside the dominant social norm. Its counterpart, neurotypical, is a more accurate word than normal. It describes what is a statistical standard rather than what is correct. Neurodivergence encompasses ADHD, autism, dyslexia, OCD, bipolar disorder, PTSD and C-PTSD, BPD, and sensory processing diffe
Surviving Online Harassment Campaigns Designed to Destroy You (opens the original)
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On August 14th 2026, in the South London district of Battersea, Professor Jason Arday’s body was found dead in his home. The senior coroner has said that Professor Arday died an unnatural death, though they have not specified the cause. But we can conclude it was suicide given the campaign that preceded it. He was the youngest professor in Cambridge’s nearly 1,000-year history. The relentless campaign that followed this achievement, backed by white supremacist academics, funded in part by <a hre
Ways Indigenous People Relate Differently from Western Norms (opens the original)
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Many Indigenous societies offer radically different, and often healthier, more fluid models of relationships than the Western ideal of the monogamous nuclear family. In the West, monogamous marriage has historically functioned less as a romantic institution and more as a mechanism of patriarchal control over women’s bodies to secure male lines of inheritance. As love and self-actualization become more central to adult life beginning in 19th century, those norms increasingly frayed. Looking to pr
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