HeyJaredDan Savage
- Indexed articles, last 90 days
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- Sep 29, 2026
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SAVAGE LOVE: Group Dynamics - Portland Mercury (opens the original)
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I’m a 37-year-old (mostly) straight man who has been in and out of a series of committed, monogamous relationships for most of my adult life. I’m now at a point where I am feeling torn in two, and it doesn’t seem like there’s anyone in my life who I can ask for help who won’t judge me. I am getting old, and I want to have kids. I have always known I wanted to have kids, but it just hasn’t happened yet, mostly because I keep moving for my career and I stayed in some long-distance relationships lo
SAVAGE LOVE: Stay With Us - Portland Mercury (opens the original)
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Dear Readers: I’m on a vacation (and bed rest) this week. Please enjoy this selection of letters from three previously published columns. — Dan Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I’d like to love and be loved by another man but I’d hate having sex with him. To add a vexing complication, I also need some sort of power imbalance. Ideally, I would fall somewhere between being a man’s sub and being his slave. I’v
Respect Crosswalks - Portland Mercury (opens the original)
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[Got an anonymous confession or rant you just have to share with the world? Submit it to I, Anonymous HERE!—eds] Hey, guy driving a blue Subaru westbound in the south park blocks who nearly hit me while walking across the crosswalks and then yelled: “figure it out, bro” to me….Fucking learn to drive, pay the fuck attention, and respect crosswalks. From your word choice, you certainly didn’t grow up hear. If you wanna move up from California, respect pedestrians and crosswalks. Next time I’ll key
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies - Portland Mercury (opens the original)
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1. Will I ever get over my ex who’s packing? If you mean packing in the “putting things in bags” sense of the term, then your ex hasn’t even moved out yet. Give it a minute. If you mean packing in the “my ex has a massive cock” sense of the term, you may never get over your ex fully. (Here’s hoping you have some pics and/or a Clone-A-Willy dildo to remember him by.) Look, I don’t know whether or not you’re gay — there’s not much info to go on in your letter — but I’ve seen two gay men go from fu
SAVAGE LOVE: Flagging - Portland Mercury (opens the original)
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Bi female here. I’ve been seeing an ENM M/F couple for almost four months. The F was an acquaintance of mine for about two years. We are all close in age (late thirties, early forties). This is my first ethically non-monogamous relationship. Here are the pros: they are charming and attractive; the sex is great; they are affectionate with me in public and introduce me to their friends as someone they are dating; they invite me to sleepover at their place, they cook for me, and show other acts of
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