HeyJaredCrazy in Love
Therapists and love experts Matt Wotton and Graham Johnston explore modern relationships and give practical advice to improve your partnerships.
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When to speak up, and when to pipe down (opens the original)
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We worry we sometimes confuse our listeners with mixed messages. We say: don't be a jerk. Don't sweat the small stuff. Bite you tongue unless something really matters. Be careful not to endlessly whine and moan at your partner. We also say: when something bothers you, speak up early, do it directly but without heat, and ask for what you want. What do we really mean? And how do you make your way through this tricky terrain? All this and more in this episode. You can work with Graham here: www.gra
Easy as ABC: Communication in Relationships (opens the original)
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Matt thinks everything can be boiled down to ABC. Acknowledge. Build. Counter. It fits the bill for the argument about household chores. It fits the bill for the difficult conversation about whether to send the kids to private school. It fits the bill for a lovely, positive conversation about holiday destinations. Graham is more sceptical. Can such a simple, slightly artificial formula genuinely offer a model for pretty much every conversation between two grown adults? As you'll hear, by the end
Who's to blame for your relationship problems? (opens the original)
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It's Episode 50! To celebrate, we're shining a sceptical spotlight on the age-old trope of blaming the parents (especially the mum). It's a familiar story in psychology literature. Bad parenting causes schizophrenia. Bad parenting causes depression. Bad parenting causes insecure attachment. Bad parenting maybe even causes autism. What's the truth behind the claims? And even where there are nuggets of truth, what can you do to take responsibility of your own future and improve your relationships?
We Over-Complicate Relationships (opens the original)
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We like to think of ourselves - and our relationships - as complex. Surely if we're bright, capable, successful people with relationship problems, those problems must be multi-faceted and sophisticated. Maybe it's due to our attachment styles and complicated personal histories? Matt and Graham argue that, in a lot of cases, simple changes in behaviours transform relationships. You can work with Graham here: www.grahamjohnston.uk You can work with Matt here: www.matwotton.com Do leave us a review
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