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The forgiveness lie Christian women believe (opens the original)
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You can forgive someone and still be living with what they broke.The marriage may still be over. Your child may still not be speaking to you. The friendship may still be gone. Your finances may still be affected. You may still walk into church and feel that knot in your stomach because of what happened there.Forgiveness doesn’t automatically put everything back the way it was.And I think that’s where some of us start questioning ourselves.If I’ve forgiven them, why am I
I Forgave Them… So Why Does It Still Hurt? (opens the original)
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What if it still hurts? What if they never apologize? What about trust, repeated sin, boundaries, justice...and what does God actually expect from us?Every month I choose a new topic for our Scripture Writing Plan in my FB Community, and usually toward the end of the month I ask the women in my community what questions they have about whatever we’re studying next. I ask because I want to know what they are actually wrestling with. Then I can go study it, look at the Scripture in context, and do
😱 How Do You Forgive When It Still Hurts (opens the original)
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Before I had a Kindle, I was at the library all the time. 😂 I would wander through the Christian section looking at whatever they had on marriage, prayer, grief, healing, relationships…basically anything that might help me make sense of my life.Not long after my divorce, I happened across a book called The Process of Forgiveness by William Meninger. I wasn’t looking for that exact book. I just saw it, got curious, checked it out, and then poured over those pages.The title alone stopped me.The pr
😩 Why Do I Keep Replaying What Happened? (opens the original)
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Some things hurt us once, and then we let them hurt us another 500 times in our head.You can be completely done with a situation and still have your mind drag you back into it every single day. The relationship ended. The conversation is over. The decision was made. The thing happened months or even years ago, and yet somehow it can still ruin a perfectly good Tuesday.Maybe you replay what they said and think about what you should have said back. Maybe you check their page, reread an old message
😳 How Much of Your Life Does This Pain Get to Take? (opens the original)
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I’m going to say something that might sting a little, but I think some of us need to hear it.Just because something hurt you deeply does not mean it gets unlimited access to your mind, your day, your joy, and every good thing God is still giving you.I am not telling you to “get over it.” Please don’t hear that. Some things change us. Betrayal changes you. Losing someone changes you. Watching your child make terrible choices changes you. A marriage falling apart changes you. Praying and praying a
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