HeyJaredBoth Sides of the Slash
A leading voice on the therapeutic potential of BDSM. Learn how exploring Dominance and submission, "both sides of the slash," can help you become a better leader and lover.
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Kinky Links 02: Guilty until proven human (opens the original)
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It’s Thursday again, which means you get whatever’s been stuck in my head. This week, my obsession with this question continues: what does it take to get counted as human, and who gets to decide? I’ve been following the story of a debut novelist who got accused of not writing his own book. I’m mind-blown (and disturbed? but mostly intrigued?) by the job title AI Companionship Therapist. A medical journal finally admitted kink might be a legitimate way to be a person (thx4thevalidation!). But bef
Kinky Links 01: dark eros playlist, tantra festival tickets, and erotic writing competitions (opens the original)
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Welcome to the first edition of Kinky Links(!) where I share the resources I’ve gathered throughout the week that have tickled my brain. This might include my favourite news stories, jobs in sexual wellness, new apps and ai-integrations I’ve been playing with, and a few off-beat bonuses. First, I want to share some exciting news! I’ve been invited to speak and host a workshop at the Toronto Tantra Festival, September 10-13. After attending a couple of years ago as a guest, I knew I wanted to eve
What happens when a dominant woman finally surrenders? (opens the original)
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Cruella is the name of my first flogger. Her black-and-white leather falls wreaked havoc on many bare and eager asses at the height of her reign. Now, she looked meaner than she was. Her thud softened by use, as memory is softened by time.This is the story of my second flogger. I named her My Sword. As in, that’s my sword.I was at a cottage with twenty friends or so, the kind of weekend we organized several times a year for birthdays, or for no reason other than being equal in attractiveness and
Improving your sex life doesn't have to be awkward (opens the original)
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I went to the movies alone almost every week in my late twenties so I could suspend reality for ninety minutes.The matinee was a place for misfits. A bright spring afternoon and I chose the dark theatre, as did the other eight people, each with a row to themselves. We were respectfully spaced out, like wild animals at a watering hole. Something about being there at two in the afternoon united us in our need to be alone.I only ever sat in the front row. I liked to be close enough that the screen
Beginner's guide to building your first scene (opens the original)
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What does BDSM stand for and how is it different than a fetish? How is submissiveness different than powerlessness? What’s the difference between BDSM and abuse? You might want the latest lingo so you can put a word like “Daddy” in your dating profile with confidence, whatever your gender. Or you might be wondering what it means to want to be worshipped, owned, or utterly undone by someone who finally sees your appetite for what it is. If this feels like one of those cooking blogs where you want
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