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From the Stands (opens the original)
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Today I’m writing from the stands, watching my soon to be 13-year-old take the fields.Even though fall just began, this is Texas. 89 degrees. Blistering sun reflecting off the artificial turf field.The sounds from the stands, from parents, and from the dugout, permeate the field.“Throw a strike”“Swing the bat”It’s the most obvious advice that I have always found quite comical. Of course the pitcher wants to throw a strike. 😆I have began to wonder, are these just words, or are they expectations?I
Why We Cling to a Single Number (opens the original)
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497 subscribers feel different than 500 subscribers. 202 pounds feel different 200 pounds. Logically, the difference is tiny. But emotionally, it can feel much bigger.A few subscribers can change how we feel about our writing. A couple pounds can change how we feel when we step on the scale. A performance rating, bank balance, or number on a screen can shape our mood, and sometimes even the story we start telling ourselves.The psychology of a number is something I find quite fascinating: How can
Maybe This is Midlife (opens the original)
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The Perfect GameOne of my favorite movies of all time is “For Love of the Game”. It’s kind of a cheesy Kevin Costner romantic drama mixed in with professional baseball. Frankly I think the baseball part is why I’m drawn to the movie so much. Every time I come across it, I have to watch it. It’s one of those favorite movies that glue you to the screen, even though you know exactly how it plays out. One of the most memorable scenes from the movie is towards the end. Billy Chapel just pitched the g
You Can't Be in Peak Season Everywhere (opens the original)
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This summer has been a busy one. And one to remember. Almost one-third of it has been spent away from home. I’ve spent quality time making memories with my wife and kids on vacation and out of town baseball tournaments for my sons.I’m also almost two months into a new role at work, which has presented its share of demands. But I can’t complain. It is a role I sought after, and one I have thoroughly enjoyed. Recently, I have felt this guilt around not feeling like I’m “crushing it” in certain are
When Should We Trust Our Gut? (opens the original)
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When Our Gut Was RightFifteen years ago, my son underwent multiple heart surgeries before his first birthday.At first, doctors told us he would be fine. They said it was only a heart murmur and that he would eventually grow out of it.But my wife and I both felt that something was wrong. We could not prove it, but we felt it in our gut. His breathing remained labored for days, even though we had been reassured that he was going to be okay.We sought another opinion. A cardiologist at a different h
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