Beyond Sobriety
This isn't just about stopping drinking - it’s about transformation, mindset shifts, and opening up new ways of living a happy sober life.
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Inhibitions are quite handy... (opens the original)
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I’ve been having lots of conversations at the moment about a fear of missing out and also feeling awkwardness in social situations when you’re sober. There is usually mention of inhibitions and the lure of alcohol promising to help you lose them as though they’re something you want to get rid of. But my argument to anyone feeling this way would be to really dive into what you believe alcohol is actually doing in that moment and to actually ask yourself if your inhibitions may help you in any way
Shutting up the wine witch for good (opens the original)
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I often think back and compare my drinking days with my life now because it keeps me focussed and grounded in all the ways my life is better now that I’m sober. Rather than keeping one foot in the past, it helps my sobriety in the now and strengthens it. Seeking out those gratitudes and remembering the truth of what alcohol brought with it fills me with such joy and I think it’s a really good idea to do, especially when alcohol has the best marketing and PR department ever and we’re bombarded wi
My last summer of drinking... (opens the original)
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Continuing on from my article last week where I talked about the time I really cringed at the thought of being the heavier drinker in a group of friends and how that led to me questioning my drinking, I wanted to share some more about my thought processes around why I stopped drinking when I did.I’d been sober curious for a decade by the time I finally got sobriety to stick. I’d had numerous sober breaks, attempts to detox, attempts to moderate and promises to myself to sort this out. But what l
The first time I cringed over how much I drank… (opens the original)
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I talk a lot here about my sober life but I wanted to talk a little bit more about what led me to go from being an “I love drinking” person to one who wholeheartedly embraces sobriety the way that I do. I’ve mentioned before that there wasn’t a big rock bottom for my drinking, rather it was like death by a thousand cuts. There were mini moments that led me to the decision to quit for good and I think that’s why it took me so long to get to that decision too.One of those moments was befriending a
Sobriety isn't supposed to be a permanent state of trying not to drink. (opens the original)
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This week I had a message (and permission to share this little snippet from it) because I feel that it brings up an important point. The person wrote to me saying that “I thought I’d feel more confident in my sobriety by now”, asking for my take on it. Confidence and sobriety are an interesting combination and a very personal journey. But I wanted to talk about why you may not be feeling as confident as you’d like at any given moment in time.Here’s the thing as well though… I don’t think that st
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