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Bad Days Are Also Part of a Very Good and Sexy Life

I'm busy writing lists and being vulnerable. A very sexy life. Xx Victoria (so much luv in dis club)

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Sep 23, 2026
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  1. Issue · Sep 23, 2026

    Do I miss the big city or do I miss myself in the big city? (opens the original)

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    Coucou, Do I miss big city life because it’s louder and more vibrant? Because of the opportunities? Do I miss who I am while exploring unknown territory? Honestly, it’s all of it.Today I let my dog choose where we walked, but it didn’t really matter—every route is a route we’ve taken a hundred times. That’s the feeling I’m trying to shake. What I miss most is the unknown. I miss living in a city where I’m still a stranger, knowing there are entire blocks I’ve never stepped on. I feel a genuine,

  2. Issue · Sep 22, 2026

    Ultimate lifehacks (at least these lifehacks make my life fucking good) (opens the original)

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    Coucou, <img alt="" class="sizing-normal" height="971" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!k-Z1!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9189bc5a-51bb-424b-84ca-487f33f96

  3. Issue · Sep 14, 2026

    How I began writing lists (Paris, France - 2018) (opens the original)

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    Coucou, I can’t claim the invention of list-making, nor can I say it was my original idea. People have been writing lists for centuries; in fact, the practice dates back to 3100 to 3000 BCE in ancient Mesopotamia, making list-making as old as writing itself. [1] My brain can barely even comprehend a timeline that far back.Thank you for being here!<input class="emai

  4. Issue · Sep 3, 2026

    How I got myself out of a rut (opens the original)

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    Lately I’ve been in a rut, but I think I’m out of it. I want to write with hope, with spirit, with joy, with sexiness. So let’s go. It is finally fall, and I’m ready for my favorite season, fall and winter. I feel most inspired when the air is cooler and the days are shorter. I fucking love it.How to get yourself out of a rut Toast your bread (best smell in the world) Play with your dog or borrow a dog, or actually, any animal Swim, preferably in the Mediterranean Sea Listen to music Move your b

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