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Welcome to the Ask Sully podcast where your modern dating questions get real answers, This space is judgement free, you won’t find bs advice, or rules you need to follow that lead to your next crash out and months of celibacy.
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do you really need to date more intentionally?? (opens the original)
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We are doing more than need to as women while dating just to avoid getting hurt... like trying to be more intentional, more discerning, more picky, and the endless list goes on, and it doesn't even work, you can do all this and still get hurt, still get rejected, still feel lonely. so I'm proposing something else in today's episode.
your life is happening now (opens the original)
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When was the last time you had so much fun you forgot what you were so worried about? This episode is a love letter to all my type A, eldest daughter, hyper independent girly pops about finding love, it was never that serious.
meet your person without dating more - the most "strategic" change I made to my love life (opens the original)
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6 years ago I was trying to make sure I was every guy's dream girl, because I believed being the best version of myself would attract better men. So why wasn't it? Why, if I was my best self, was I not meeting my person? Why was I still having men from my past pop up, or men who claimed to be interested but never got to know the real me? In this episode I explain the only "strategic" change I made to my actual dating and love life and how it made meeting my person one of the easiest, most joyful
An abundance of love, a fresh start with dating (opens the original)
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If you’re longing for true love but you’re tired of trying to get it this week’s fresh start episode of the podcast is for you. Sign up for the free live workshop here.
A court of playing big in love | an exercise in free will (opens the original)
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We are playing small with love, and I'm not talking about just settling for the wrong person. I'm talking about it being decided that there are only two ways to date, or believing that the love we want doesn't exist, or not ending things early because it's "harmless" when we know deeply and intuitively that it isn't for us, or making our single lives the prologue to the rest of our lives. Dating, meeting your person, and falling in love gets to be epic if you want it to be. It doesn't have to be
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