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To Slide (Or Not To Slide)? (opens the original)
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Adri,I am new to dating again. I feel a little far removed from getting back out there again. I don’t want to get on the apps. And, I have never really approached people I am interested in, but I would like to start. How do you suggest I approach someone if you don’t know what their preferences are? I would love some advice and ways to initiate conversation, even if they might not be into other women. Thanks,To Slide Or Not To Slide (that is the question.)Dear To Slide Or Not To Slide,To Slide O
Happily-Ish Ever After (opens the original)
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Hey Adri.I’m in my 40s and divorced. I have been in a relationship without a label or a clear hierarchy for 3+ years now. We are long-distance, but facetime and text every day. We see each other in real life every couple of months, but only for a night or two as our parenting and life schedules allow. However, we are unquestionably anchor relationships in each other’s lives.It’s a stable and meaningful relationship for both of us, but I worry because we can’t agree on a label or a framework for
Unsolicited: Sometimes YOU Are The Problem (opens the original)
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Think of this title as a statistical statement as much as a moral one. Sometimes, you are the issue. You are wrong. You mishandle things. You overreact. You misread. You behave badly. That it isn’t necessarily intentional must be understood as deeply besides the point if you have any hope of doing better or being a safe person to be in relationship with. I say this with the deep, hard won knowledge of someone who has been the problem™️. I dated someone briefly knowing early that there was both m
Ready To Go Fish (opens the original)
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Hi Adri,I’m a man that’s been out of my last relationship for a bit over a year now. I’m looking to find someone solid to build something with or to at least enjoy the summer with and the apps have become even more of a slog than before. While I do value appearance to a reasonable extent, I’ve never been that interested in a superficial connection. What is the best place to find a woman who is intellectually stimulating without coming across like I’m trying to bother them in public? I’m in my mi
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