HeyJaredArchwinger’s Substack
The best measure of where you stand with somebody is how big of an asshole you can be and still get away with it.
- Indexed issues, last 90 days
- 13
- Latest publication
- Sep 29, 2026
- Audience
- Checking…
- Earliest in this view
- Jul 9, 2026
Latest issues
Women don’t make rules about sex. They make rules about men. (opens the original)
Read excerpt
One of the hardest Red Pill lessons a man has to learn (or unlearn, actually) is that we grow up believing that women need to feel an emotional connection before they want to have sex with a man. And that the key to developing this emotional connection is dating for a while. Maybe even being good friends for a while first.Then we learn that women have casual sex. That women will, quite willingly, have sex with a guy who is not their boyfriend.We tell ourselves that the women must have been misle
A woman’s reality is her feelings (opens the original)
Read excerpt
The number one most important factor for whether a man succeeds or fails with a woman is how he makes her feel.Everything else — everything — is secondary to that.We tell men that looks matter, and they do, but looks matter because being really good-looking makes a woman feel something. Not even necessarily about the guy, but about herself. Being chosen by a very good-looking man makes a woman feel very good about herself. The man makes her have strong positive feelings.Same with money, status,
Forgive yourself before you hurt too many people (opens the original)
Read excerpt
The biggest thing internet men hate about the love, sex, and relationships game is that women get to play on “easy mode.” Just for being women. An unexceptional, average woman - heck, even a fat, ugly woman - can still find dates and have sex with reasonable frequency. Assuming they’re not too picky. Meanwhile, an unexceptional, average man struggles very heavily in the sex and dating arena. And a legitimately ugly man might as well not even try. And being picky isn’t an issue for these men. You
Women treat making men happy like a job. All of them. (opens the original)
Read excerpt
Marilyn Monroe was regarded as one of the most beautiful celebrity women of her time. Though she had a very successful career with a large variety of roles, the image she is most famous for is a provocative photograph taken in 1954. During a scene where she passes over a subway grate, a blast of air from the grate blows her skirt up, revealing a hint of her undergarments and a lot of leg, while she pushes most of the skirt down to maintain her dignity. But instead of being absolutely mortified b
Aim lower, not higher. That’s how to be a leader. (opens the original)
Read excerpt
On of the “manly” things guys are often advised to do when their relationship, marriage, and/or sex life is suffering is some version of “be a leader, dude.”The flaw in that line of reasoning is that to be a leader, you need followers. Otherwise, you’re not a leader, just a weirdo. There was this guy a while back who would tell men stupid things like make your bed, wear a suit, vote conservative, and strut around acting like a big-man family leader, with the idea that if you do this, people will
Publishing over time
Last 90 days. Choose a month to open its work.
Recurring subjects
Named in the text we hold. One piece can cover several.
Audience
No verified audience measurement yet.
About this data
Counts cover the work we have indexed. Tone needs enough text and a confident classification. Excerpts and episode notes are not full articles or transcripts.
Identity or attribution wrong? Suggest a correction.