HeyJaredAllow It & KEEP GOING!
Author of “Allow It”. Mostly writing about the principles and many benefits of Allowance. Celebrating the ups + coping with the downs of life (ie Winning or Learning). 1: Growing by the way we frame things. Empath, philosopher with ongoing inner work.
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Allowing Grief (opens the original)
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This is a subject. I have avoided for a long time feeling unqualified to offer concrete and helpful advice. Naturally, it’s an extremely emotive topic and one that needs to be considered very delicately.For anyone who is grieving at the moment all I can offer is what I have found helpful from past experience. I am not a counsellor, I am not a psychiatrist, I am not a psychologist so I approach this from the standpoint of being a sincere empath.If you are grieving at the moment, all I can say is
Allowing Heartache... (opens the original)
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There’ll come a time when a relationship comes to an end and when it does it can either bring relief, sadness or grief.Here we will look at the grief aspect of a breakup.When it happens and we didn’t want the relationship to finish, it can sometimes leave us in emotion, a type of cloud, a gloom that hangs over us and the darkness seems impossible to shift.No matter what we do, how we divert our attention, occupy ourselves, watch your favourite program, listen to great music, be with friends; tha
Allow It for Contentment (opens the original)
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We all have a different image of contentment.A cottage in the countryside.Lazing on a beach somewhere warm.Sufficient money not to worry.A happy family who all get on.Good health.Quality of life.However, is contentment something we gradually possess or something we gradually notice?There is a tendency to look towards the next goal, the next benchmark, the right relationship, a better version of ourselves.There always seems to be another hill to climb, promising what this one didn’t quite deliver
Allow It for Peace (opens the original)
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Ask anyone what they want most in life and they might say, “Happiness and contentment.”What underlies those two ambitions is peace. Without it, it’s really rather hard to have either.Thanks for reading Allow It ! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.<div class=
Allow It Observes Reality (opens the original)
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What does reality really show you?It’s a very simple question. Too simple even?Many of our struggles in life start whenever we argue with reality.That argument happens in our thoughts.We question how long something is taking, with someone’s behaviour, with change, disappointments and uncertainty.Ask yourself: is any arguing good for us?Yet we do it all the time.Life carries on whether we like it or not. It doesn’t care, it has no emotions, no feelings. It just is.Allowance helps you to acknowled
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