After Thot
We had our thot era. Now we name what it taught us. After Thot is your weekly debrief, unpacking modern dating lore with anonymous moments, guest messes, and the perspective that turns end-of-the-world instances into afterthoughts. Clarity is our kink.
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My Husband Ran Off With My Girlfriend (feat. Anastacia Rose) (opens the original)
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I met Anastacia almost 4 years ago at .... the dog park (shocker) and I've been obsessed with her ever since. She's a queer, non-monogamous, thotty force who got married young, before her frontal lobe had fully signed off on the decision, and what happened next during the early days of the pandemic is genuinely one of the wildest stories I've ever heard. But this episode isn't really about the wreckage. It's about what she built on the other side of it: the education, the reinvention, the hard-w
My Mom Dated in 1970s Analog-Era Manhattan and Here's What She Thinks We're Doing Wrong (opens the original)
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In the 1970s, My mom was a 20-something single, living her best life Manhattan... $400-a-month Upper West Side apartment, Studio 54, house parties instead of dating apps, and a whole lot of waiting by the phone. This week she comes on the show to walk me through what dating looked like before you could swipe, why she treated husband-hunting like a job search, and the one behavior from her era she thinks we've completely lost the plot on. We also run every modern dating term — ghosting, breadcrum
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