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🤫 Silence Is a System (opens the original)
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A few years ago, I was sitting in a busy restaurant having a conversation with someone I cared about. I was listening, or at least trying to. But there was so much happening around us: conversations from the tables next to us, plates and glasses, music in the background, people walking past, phones ringing. Every few seconds, something else seemed to find its way into my attention. The strange thing was that I wasn’t bored. I wasn’t uninterested in the conversation. Quite the opposite. I wanted
🧠 7 ADHD Reframes That Can Make Life Easier — Without Trying to Fix Your Brain (opens the original)
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ADHD can make everyday life feel harder than it should.A small mistake can turn into hours of overthinking. A simple task can feel impossible to start. One comment from someone else can trigger shame, defensiveness or the feeling that you’re somehow failing at things everyone else seems to manage.And sometimes, the problem isn’t only what is happening. It’s also how we’re framing what is happening.That’s where reframing can help.Let’s dive in! 🚀<a cla
🧠 9 ADHD Thought Traps That Can Hijack Your Brain — And What to Do Instead (opens the original)
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Have you ever had this happen?Someone says: “You forgot that again.” That’s it. One sentence. But five minutes later, your brain is somewhere completely different.“They think I’m unreliable.”“I always mess things up.”“I’m going to get into trouble.”Suddenly, you’re defending yourself, replaying the conversation or feeling terrible about yourself. The interesting part? The original event was only one sentence.The spiral came from the meaning your brain attached to it.</s
🧠 How to Win Friends & Influence People — The ADHD Edition (opens the original)
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I’m currently rereading How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, and this time I keep asking myself:“Okay… but how do I actually apply this with ADHD?”Because the advice sounds simple: Don’t criticize. Show appreciation. Listen, don’t interrupt. Remember names. Smile. Don’t argue. Show interest and ask questions. Make the other feel seen and important. Easy, right? Except someone is talking, I’m genuinely listening and suddenly my brain goes: “WAIT. I HAVE A THO
🌱 Existir y Complacer. Please When You Choose. (opens the original)
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Have you ever finished a conversation and realised you spent more time understanding the other person than being yourself? You listened, adapted, made sure they were comfortable… and afterwards wondered: “Did I even show up in that moment?” For years, I thought this was simply who I was. I thought I was just caring, helpful, and someone who naturally wanted to make things easier for others.But I slowly realised something: sometimes I wasn’t choosing kindness. I was automatically adjusting myself
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