HeyJaredActually, you know what
"Actually, you know what" is a story/experience telling podcast where Stephany (aka Steggy) dives into relationships, self-growth, and all of the lessons learned (and not learned) along the way. Humor, honesty, and chaos is promised.
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- Jul 6, 2026
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Episode 31: Summer Recap Part 1 (opens the original)
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Steggy and Mal accidentally took a bit of a duo podcast hiatus - whoops! On the last episode (the Breakup) I (Steggy) mentioned we would be talking about how busy the Summer was - and here it is! From plans with each other, community, and work - to checking in on our physical and mental health - Summer was absolutely crazy and went by extremely quickly! But we're back! We talk about all the things we've had going on while also visiting topics like our health, Avengers Endgame Encore, and other r
Episode 30: The Breakup (opens the original)
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No fun cosmic names for this one plain and simple - it's THE breakup. Sometimes the hardest part of a breakup isn’t losing the person, but rather letting go of who you thought they could be. The ✨potential✨ In this solo episode, I’m talking about the patterns I’ve noticed in my relationships, the line between being accommodating and self-abandonment, grieving aforementioned potential, learning to believe people's actions, and more! Find out why this breakup hit just a little different than the p
Episode 29: Hot Takes Pt 2 (opens the original)
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Mal and Steggy circle back on their list of "hot takes" (which might actually just be lukewarm) from "too much" communication to the "bean soup" mentality. Take a listen and see if you agree or disagree with the topics at hand!
Episode 28: Love Island Finale (opens the original)
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This week, we dive into the 2nd half of Love Island! We know reality TV isn't for everyone - but we can't help but be obsessed with this show! Don't worry, we sprinkle in some stuff about farts and people's behavior, too.
Episode 27: When The Stars Don't Align (opens the original)
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This week, Steph and Mal unpack the lessons hiding inside Steph's recent breakup without turning it into an ex-bashing session. From confusing chemistry with compatibility to learning what emotional safety actually feels like, they're talking about the patterns that keep showing up and how to finally break them.They also dive into trusting your intuition again, raising your standards without becoming cynical, and what Stephany hopes to bring into her next relationships.Sometimes the real magic i
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