HeyJaredAccording To B
According to B is your go-to podcast for real talk with women who are ditching the rulebook and doing life their way. Hosted by Bokang Lehlokoe, it’s all about the messy middles, quiet wins, and bold moves behind the scenes.
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The First Woman in My Bloodline to Break the Blueprint: Zithobe Macheli on Career, Money & Love (opens the original)
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What if becoming the person who gets to live your dream life starts long before the dream actually arrives? Zithobe Macheli has transformed more than one area of her life-from dropping out of university to betting on herself as a content creator, healing her relationship with her skin and body, building her confidence, and ultimately creating a life that once existed only in her imagination. This week, she pulls up a chair at the A2B Café to talk about the inner work behind the outer transformat
The Pleasure of Becoming a Grown Woman: Your 30s, Age Gap Dating & Celibacy ft. Nandipha Mqoco (opens the original)
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Whoever convinced women that life peaks in their twenties has some explaining to do. 😭 Because if you ask us? The thirties are kind of giving. This week, Nandipha Mqoco pulls up a chair at the A2B Café for a conversation about getting older, getting hotter, getting clearer on who you are and why there is so much more life waiting for women on the other side of 30. We talk about the freedom that comes with knowing yourself better, our changing relationships with our bodies, style, confidence, fri
Breaking Up With My Dream Life: Bonge Gumede on Success, Surrender & Starting Over / Thumbnail: I got everything I wanted… (opens the original)
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What happens when you get everything you worked for… and realise you might not want it anymore? Bonge Gumede spent years building the dream. She left university to bet on herself, poured everything into becoming a full-time fitness creator and eventually built the career she had imagined — a global audience, six-figure earnings, major opportunities and even the chance to live abroad. Then, at what should have felt like the height of it all, she walked away. In this episode, Bonge takes us throug
Do We Have to Settle Down? Popi Sibiya on Travel, Marriage & Being Choicefully Childfree (opens the original)
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What happens when you stop building your life around the milestones you were told you should want and start asking what you actually want instead? Travel creator and digital anthropologist Popi Sibiya has built a life defined by curiosity, adventure and a willingness to take the road less travelled — literally. Over drinks at the A2B Café, Popi and I talk about the choices that have shaped the life she lives today: travel, freedom, home, relationships, marriage, being child-free, taking risks an
From a Village Girl to Miss South Africa, Columbia University & Beyond w/ Shudu Musida (opens the original)
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Shudufhadzo Musida has never been afraid to dream beyond what seems realistic. From entering Miss South Africa when she never considered herself a “pageant girl,” to eventually wearing the crown, pursuing her studies at Columbia University and living out a New York dream she first imagined as a little girl Shudu’s life is proof of just how far a dream can take you. But big dreams can also require big sacrifices. In our first conversation at the A2B Café, Shudu and I talk about keeping a dream al
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